Friday, December 20, 2013

Johnny "Angel"

     Today, as I stood near the piano with a tape measure in hand, thinking how to get home with this second-hand treasure, I wondered if I had taken on too much of a challenge:  "57 3/4 L X 24" D X 36 1/2" H" and approximately 400 lbs. 
     On the brink of my dilemma (of how to get the piano home), my enthusiasm began to fade rehearsing phone calls to piano movers to gather estimates, looking at YouTube videos about what it takes to move a piano, and googeling similar items and prices.  I started to think maybe my unexpected find was beyond my reach for several reasons: 

     What if it was too far out of tune to be a decent piano?  How often would it need to be tunedOr moved?  I  first thought a friend with a pickup would be enough to help us get it home.  But suddenly, I was having a crash course in pianos: something I had always dreamed of owning, but I had never looked into realistically.  

     For myself, I might have passed.  But for my daughter, who has always wanted to learn how to play the piano, I didn't have the heart to pass it up.  

     The scenes of the past six months ran through my mind like cards being shuffled by a card shark.  Her father barely survived a suicide attempt in June.  She barely survived her 21st birthday in August and spent days in a crisis center recovering.  Her beautiful calico kitten, adopted after she got home from the crisis center, was killed by a horrible attack from two dogs due to a negligent roommate, which ended their year long relationship.  She almost lost her job due to the effects of new medicine, ongoing panic attacks and depression, and an escalating abusive relationship. Then in November, we lost her dad due to a heroin overdose.  He had been struggling to overcome his addiction for a while.  Being in physical pain with no health care alternatives, as well as the loss of his girlfriend in the last year to an overdose; as Shakespeare says, "misery acquaints a man with strange bedfellows."  She lost almost everything dear to her, on top of dealing with my diagnosis of stage IV breast cancer.  

     What would it mean to her to wake up on Christmas morning, facing all she has been through recently, to something that could ease her pain and give her something pleasant to focus on that can actually help her to develop healthy coping skills?  Music, like art, is a good start.  (I also got her a new turntable; but, playing the piano is a more creative form of therapy which involves eyes, ears, hands, feet, and heart.)  That's why I decided to buy the piano.

     Mesmerized in thoughts, I circled like a hawk unsure where to land for a few minutes and then came back to the piano wondering what was I thinking trying to buy a piano and how to bring it home.  One of the employees nearby began to tell me how great a condition the piano was in.  While I listened, my eye caught sight of someone approaching behind her with a pink electric guitar over his shoulder.  (As a breast cancer survivor, this put a smile on my face.)  He caught my eye too, because he looked like someone I would have known, tattoos all down his arms, long hair pulled back, gauged ear plugs, and he walked with an air about him, as an intelligent and artistic musician.  

     He came up and (looking admiringly at the piano) asked if I had bought it.  I said, "yes, and by the way, nice guitar!"  He seemed to know about keyboard instruments and mentioned he has several.  He asked if I had a way to move it and I said I wasn't sure yet.  So far nothing had been decided.  He then offered to help me get it home!  He said he has moved many of his own organs and pianos of similar size.  He also had a Suburban and said he'd be glad to move it for me with the help of one of his friends, or if his friend wasn't available, he felt sure he could find someone from around the UCO campus to help.  (He was an art major at UCO and graduated in 2010.)  

      I was so amazed that someone would consider helping, even after telling him it probably weighed 400 lbs.  We exchanged numbers and he said his name was Johnny.  I said I would be able to pay him something for helping me although it wasn't much compared to the price of a piano mover.  He didn't mind at all, he said he just wanted to help.  

      We met at the store after his friend got off work and they managed to get the piano loaded into the Suburban.  It wasn't as difficult getting it loaded since the store had some flats with rollers and some additional help lifting.  But the bigger challenge came when we got to my apartment, with only the two of them to get the piano out of the Suburban and into the apartment.

     They made it safely over the first hurdle, getting the piano out of the Suburban, (and only one smashed finger).  I was thinking, "What do I have that they could roll the piano on?"  Just as I asked whether I could find something to set the piano on, Johnny said, "I have a skateboard."  I said, "Oh Yes!  So do I!"  The excitement was mutual, not only that there was suddenly a way to move the piano through the parking lot to the apartment on rollers, but also because we were excited to know that we both have skateboards!!

      It worked incredibly well!  We skate-boarded the piano all the way to the (two) steps, then had to maneuver it again once it was on the porch.  I was so thrilled not only to have my piano moved, but to have it delivered with such artistic style!  'Cause, as Johnny said, "That's the way we roll!"

      When we got the piano inside the apartment, they were careful to put everything in place and to instruct me how to replace a screw that was missing on one side.  As Johnny looked around the room for a moment, he said, "you must be an art major."  I said, "Yes, I was an art major, but then I changed to English."  He said he got his degree in art hoping to be an art teacher, but now it will require more than his art degree to teach.  In the meantime, he's working random jobs after graduating until he can pass more tests and get an additional degree.  Then he said, "when I saw you standing there by the piano, something just told me, God told me, to come and help you."  Then he said, "I could also tell you were pretty cool" (i.e. not a square).  Nice.  God definitely knows how to make the scene - being in the right place at the right time!  And I also realized,  musicians with guitars are sometimes like angels with wings.  With that in mind, our dreams are never too big!
Johnny "Angel"
     (The photos on this post are generic this time but nearly identical to the originals, my camera is broken on my phone due to water damage - it ended up in a cup of water, submerged for - not sure how long - or I would have taken many pictures today!)


















Wednesday, December 4, 2013

Happy 65th Birthday Ozzy: Pictures of Matchstick Men & You


To pay tribute to Ozzy's 65th Birthday, (Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013) I'm posting one of my favorite Ozzy songs, a cover by Ozzy and Type O Negative of Status Quo's "Matchstick Men":



Here's a link to the original by Status Quo in 1968:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y8THWF09D9w&list=RDY8THWF09D9w


Monday, December 2, 2013

KCDIY - Tuning in now...

http://www.kkfi.org/program/kcdiy/#

Tuesday at 12:00 am

KCDIY

KCDIY Radio is Kansas City’s last and only punk radio program. Each week is a themed selection of punk and hardcore from the past 30 years, including new music each week.

Josh's Brother, Justin Betterton, hosts this radio program each Tuesday beginning at 12:00 am.  Don't miss it!  It's what he would have wanted.


https://www.facebook.com/pages/KCDIY-Radio/42066106928


Wednesday, November 13, 2013

Rest in Punk



Josh Betterton (and me) in OKC:






Life, like pictures, sometimes gets a little out of focus, but my memories of you will never be hazy. I will always remember your wonderfully unique sense of humor, your love for music, your honest heart, your insane and crazy bands, your brilliant mind, and sharing so many good times (like the 90's, driving home from a concert with my head tilted so I could get in the car with my liberty-spiked hair)! I will miss you so much and I already do!  Thank you for having such a generous heart, and for just being you.  Being who you are is what made you such a great person, friend, brother, son, and father.

Joshua David Betterton
1-11-1976 - 11-10-2013



Josh's band, the Hopeless Destroyers
 

One night at the Red Cup



(...still at Red Cup)

Josh, you lived much longer than you ever thought you would, (especially when you were getting jumped for being a punk, and almost killed by skinheads for being a punk against racism!), but your life and passion for music wasn't long enough for the people who love you and who will always miss you, your bright blue eyes and your heart of gold.


 

Help if you can:

Josh Betterton Memorial Fund

Friends of Josh Betterton Memorial Page

These links have music samples from Josh's bands:

 Riot in the Plaza - Memoriam - Josh Betterton

Oklahoma Rock.com

(this pic by Tasha)

Classic Josh quotes:
"I'm more of a man than you'll ever be, and more of a woman than you'll ever have."

The Sunday Oklahoman
24 November 2013, P. 25A













Wednesday, July 31, 2013

The tefillah of a tzaddik:

Yaakov 5:16

Orthodox Jewish Bible (OJB)
16 Therefore, make vidduy (confession of sin) to one another, and daven tefillos on behalf of one another, so that you may have refuah sheleimah (complete healing). The tefillah of a tzaddik is powerful and effective.


Monday night while praying in the chapel at St. John the Baptist Parish, a thunderstorm came through with strong winds and flash flooding. As the rain and wind died down again, I started to read Psalm 104. Suddenly the fire alarms started going off throughout the building just as I read, "You touch the volcano and it erupts"! I waited a few minutes to see if anyone would come to shut them off or if I could see any damage, but nobody came. I had to leave because it was too loud to stay. The emergency lights were flashing through the stained glass windows and throughout the building as I drove away. 

Tonight I remembered the scripture in James 5:16, "The prayer of someone seeking to live right with God is a power to be reckoned with." Remember Elijah? Fervent, red hot, passionate, intense prayer yields results?  Sound the alarm. 

(The sprinklers didn't come on right away, however, when I went by again tonight there was a "Wet Floor" sign in the Chapel.)

Tuesday, May 21, 2013

"Roped Out"

My heart is broken for the people of Moore tonight.  Trained as a first responder, although not at the scene today, I could see the overwhelming devastation and shock on the faces that wandered through the debris after the storm had finally roped out.  I felt a connection to the people in the disaster and the location which is so familiar to me.  I lived with my dad in the same neighborhood during ninth grade and I also have friends who currently live in the area.  Thankfully, they are all accounted for and safe tonight.

On Thursday night, while at work at the airport, they were already talking about severe weather that was being forecast for the weekend and through the coming week, not unusual for this time of year.  When I got off work at midnight, I drove back to Edmond, 25 miles north, but I kept feeling restless and I didn't want to go home.  I decided to drive for a while but I didn't know where I wanted to go exactly.

Then my daughter called me as I was driving toward the direction of her house and she said she would go with me on a drive.  We decided to drive to Moore to check on a friend there.  The airport is near Moore and I had just come from there, but I felt like we should go back.  Her friend was staying at a home near S.W. 149th and Santa Fe in Moore.

 After we got there and saw everything was alright, we decided to stop for a few minutes on the corner of the intersection at 149th and Santa Fe where we parked at the Walgreen's and got out of the car for a few minutes.  My daughter wanted to have a smoke break, and I still felt restless.  As we drove up 149th, a bird flew in front of my car, which was odd for 2am, and as we sat and talked, I mentioned to her that the birds were being unusually noisy for so late at night.  All the businesses were closed except for a 7-11 (which is no longer there after the storm today).  It was very quiet except for the birds, who seemed restless and I noticed it because I felt it too.

Seeing what happened here today, I wondered if the birds might have sensed something was going to happen.  Since I was near the area while at work, I wondered if maybe I sensed something too, because I don't usually feel so restless that I don't want to go home when I get off work that late.

After a few minutes we drove back to Edmond, and I was finally ready to sleep.  I found out today the corner we stopped at was only one block from the Briarwood Elementary School, which took a direct hit during the tornado today.  Thankfully, there were no fatalities at this location.  However, the Plaza Towers Elementary School has had many fatalities so far, where the search and rescue are still underway.

The story of teachers who protected and covered their students even with their own bodies to protect them from the flying debris and falling structures is so incredible.  One teacher saved the lives of six students by shielding them from a wall of cinder blocks that was falling on them.  They are my heroes, as well as those who have helped the rescue efforts in any way. 

at Briarwood Elementary, Moore, OK
 Here's a TV news report: http://goo.gl/RpgLQ

- me in 5th grade -



Saturday, May 4, 2013

None Opposed


The Shroud of Turin, thought to be the burial cloth of Christ, has always interested me.  I recently became curious about the symbolism of hands in reference to works of art and noticed the position of the hands on the image of the Shroud, particularly the position of the thumbs.  According to an article by Ray Zone, "Palmistry: Oppositions and Blessings," the position of the thumbs can be significant symbolism.  He writes:

"The thumb at birth is generally hidden and folded under the other fingers.  As the child matures and the personality develops, it opens and almost assumes a life of its own.  During sleep, the thumb reverts to folding back again under the fingers.  As the personality develops in life, the thumb becomes a vibrant display of character.  At death, the thumb is once again folded under the fingers."

Another purpose I discovered for folding the thumb inward towards the palm is shown in the pictures below:



The "knife hand," also known as Sudo Makki, uses this position of the hand to strike an opponent as well as to block.  This hand position is also used in the movie "Kill Bill" to direct one's energy before striking a blow to an opponent or an obstacle:



I also found, contrary to popular belief, that according to one online article in "The Finger," the thumbs-up gesture did not represent a sign to spare a gladiator's life in Ancient Rome.  The article states, "A phlebian's pointed thumb or "pollice verso" (whether the thumb is pointed up, down, or somewhere in between, we don't know) meant the combatant was to be slain.  A HIDDEN THUMB, folded out of sight, or the "pollice compresso," meant he was to be spared."




In a way, Jesus was like God's thumb.  He was with God and God through Jesus, the Word made flesh, unfolded at the creation of the world.  The gospel of John says that everything that was made was made by and through Him, and nothing exists apart from Him.  God did all his work of creation in six days, and on the seventh day He rested.  Then, when the time came for Jesus to come to earth, He did not come to do what He wanted, but He came to reveal the nature and character of God and to do God's will.  If our thumb reveals our character and personality as we live our lives, Jesus lived His life in a way that revealed the character and personality of God, the Heavenly Father.  He didn't do His own will, but He only did what He saw His Father doing, Jesus only expressed what he saw God's thumb print on, or he was the thumb print of God for us to behold.  He was filled with and guided by the Holy Spirit, and He emptied Himself to the point of death, even dying on a cross so that God's will could be fulfilled and accomplished through Him. 


In each of the descriptions I found about thumbs folded inward, I like this idea the best:  That God in His love spared the world from judgment, death, and separation from Him, so that we can receive eternal life, which is to know Him.  Since salvation is of Jewish origin, a "goyim" like me was far from God and without hope in the world apart from Him, and could only be brought near to God by the blood of Jesus' sacrifice by His death on the cross (Ephesians 2:13).  He did this by folding his thumbs inward at the time of his death; through dying, he dealt a death blow to the one who had the power of death, and by separating our sins from us through His blood that was shed, He made a new and living way for us to be united to God.  He broke through for us, so that death can no longer hold any power over us.  Since this is the week of Christ's passion in the Coptic and Greek Orthodox Christian Church, we remember his power, not in the glory of his resurrection, but in the humility of his obedience and submission even to the point of a violent death.  He did not oppose death, but entrusted his soul to a faithful Creator, and looked only to endure suffering, to love, to bear, and to save those who put Him to death.  We are all part of that crowd, and are able to recognize his cry, "Father forgive them, for they know not what they do."


God is opposed to the proud, but gives grace to the humble.  (I Peter 5:5 & James 4:6)